Sex surrogates are also known as sex therapists. Sex surrogates make use of different therapies to help their clients. This could involve the use of communication skills, physical skills and telephonic conversations. These therapies help the client get over issues pertaining to their sexuality and their comfort level with their own sexuality.
Earlier tabooed, the services of sex surrogates became known in many of the states and people started coming out of their shell to treat their problems; realizing that something in them is not normal with relation to their sexuality. Realizing this difficult truth about themselves is the first step towards their recovery from love-shyness.
The therapies used by sex surrogates also help couples, married or otherwise, who are going through a difficult phase of their relationship. With the help of the sex surrogates, the couples can overcome whatever barriers they are facing which stops them to enjoy a blissful relationship.
Within a couple there could be number of things why they would approach the sex surrogates and here in this article we are going to discuss some of these reasons.
• Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder is one of the common problems due to which couples seek sex therapists or sex surrogates. This desire refers to having low levels of libido or sexual desires. There is nothing unusual about it. It can be triggered due to a number of reasons which could be medical or physical. Sex surrogates can help such a patient be aroused easily.
• Sometimes people just lose interest in having sex because of their negative feelings towards the opposite gender. This could be because of repetitive happenings which developed lack of trust for the other gender in the client over the time. The sex surrogates in such cases helps the client become comfortable with the other gender; to develop back that trust.
• The third reason why couples seek the help of sex surrogates is because either one of them could be uncomfortable with his/her sexuality or body. No matter what kind of body, the sex surrogates can help the client overcome this shyness so that he/she can confidently participate in the sexual activity.
• The need of sex surrogates can also arise, if the client is facing problems with orgasms, premature ejaculation or other performance related issues. The sex surrogates can in this respect can help the client perform better.
Often people believe that sex surrogates are required when all hope is lost in the common sex therapy in between couples and they are called upon as a last resort. However those who are already not in a relationship seek their help too; more so, because they intend getting into a successful relationship.
In such a case, the sex surrogates can help the individual in gaining confidence about entering a relationship. The clients do it as a measure to get their sex issues cleared before they are in a relationship rather than afterwards when it can create problem for them or their spouse in the relationship.
